Online connection is a starting point, but the ultimate goal is getting off the internet. Every year, Gay Lazarus hosts three-day, in-person meetups in Bangkok (February), Lisbon (June), and Buenos Aires (October). The inaugural retreat kicks off in Lisbon in June 2027.
These are not tightly scheduled, exhausting group tours. They are relaxed, unscripted environments designed for men who want to connect without the pressure of a rigid itinerary. We will share great dinners, grab drinks, explore the local scene, and actually have the time and space to talk. I will curate the anchor events, but you maintain complete freedom to wander, make your own plans, or take time to yourself whenever you need it.
The official schedule runs for three days. How you build the rest of your trip is up to you. Members of the private network receive priority access the moment registration opens. Specific dates, accommodations, and logistics will drop as we approach the Lisbon launch.